My husband is a liar and a cheat. He has cheated on me from the beginning, and when I confront him, he denies everything. What's worse, everyone knows he cheated on me. It is so humiliating. Also, since losing his job four years ago, he has not even looked for a new one! All he does is buy cigars and cruise around and shoot the bull with his pals, while I have to work to pay the bills. Since our daughter went away to college, he doesn't even pretend to like me and hints that I am a lesbian. What should I do?
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Grow up and dump him. For Pete's sake, you do not need him any more, you are a United States Senator from New York, act like it!